
Why the reaction can happen before thought catches up
See how pressure can trigger a body response, emotion and automatic urge before you have had time to think it through.
Why understanding the pattern has not changed it
Learn why you can explain a reaction afterwards and still be caught by it the next time pressure rises.
How to recognise the loop as it forms
Begin noticing the trigger, interpretation, body response, emotion and urge that make up your own repeating loop.
Plus: Guided Effortless Meditation and practical experiential exercises on the live session.
Why the reaction can happen before thought catches up
See how pressure can trigger a body response, emotion and automatic urge before you have had time to think it through.
Why understanding the pattern has not changed it
Learn why you can explain a reaction afterwards and still be caught by it the next time pressure rises.
How to recognise the loop as it forms
Begin noticing the trigger, interpretation, body response, emotion and urge that make up your own repeating loop.
Plus: Guided Effortless Meditation and practical experiential exercises on the live session.
Paul competed at professional NRL level, where pushing through discomfort was often rewarded as part of performance.
He has spent more than a decade coaching football teams and observing how pressure exposes technique, habits, impatience, comparison, force and avoidance.
His own experience of burnout, disconnection and rebuilding changed what strength meant: a body you can trust, not one you are constantly fighting.



This live training unfolds across three sessions, each addressing a different layer of the same process. Nothing is rushed. Nothing is skipped. Each session creates the conditions for the next.



The first session establishes a shared understanding of how patterns form, why they repeat, and why effort alone doesn’t interrupt them. This is where language sharpens, awareness settles, and the group begins working together experientially.
Education, connection, and guided exercises build the internal conditions required for deeper work. It’s not about change yet. It’s about stabilising the ground so the work can go where it needs to.
The second session is where the underlying drivers become visible. This is where attention moves beneath story and explanation and into the level where patterns are organised. Rather than working on reactions, the work meets what shapes them.
For many, this is the first time the actual root of a repeating pattern becomes clear not abstractly, but directly. Sensation, emotion, memory, and belief are seen together as one process, rather than separate parts. This is the pivotal session. Not because it is intense, but because it is clarifying.
The final session is about making sense of what has been revealed and how it integrates back into real life.
Patterns are unpacked carefully. Questions are explored openly. What emerges on Day 2 is contextualised, stabilised, and translated into understanding that can be lived with personally and professionally.
This session includes open inquiry and space to ask what matters most, without agenda or pressure. The focus is not on adding more, but on allowing what has shifted to organise naturally.
Find that your mind does not switch off, even when the day is over
Replay conversations and second guess decisions long after the moment has passed
React under pressure, then question why it affected you so strongly
Feel tension or internal pressure even when everything appears fine
Keep saying yes, then feel resentful or depleted afterwards
Have already worked on yourself, but the same pattern still returns
Want to keep your strength and ambition without continuing to pay for them with yourself
See the pattern beneath stress and overthinking. Understand why it repeats. Begin creating more space to respond differently.
Tuesday, 8 September 2026 | 6:30 pm-8:30 pm AEST | Live via Zoom
Intrinsic Living® was founded by Craig Young to help adults understand and interrupt the stress driven patterns beneath overthinking, emotional reactions and self-doubt so they can rebuild calm, clarity and self-trust.
Inner Growth Coaching through awareness, emotion and subconscious patterns

Craig brings more than 30 years of experience building and consulting across businesses, along with the lived experience of three major burnouts and the deeper rebuild that followed.
His work brings together Inner Growth Coaching, Effortless Meditation, breathwork and embodied awareness in a grounded, practical and non judgemental way.
Break the Loop: Live is where that work begins: seeing the pattern more clearly.
Break the Loop: Live is held by facilitators who approach the work from different directions and meet at the same depth. Each brings a distinct way of working with pattern, regulation, and integration. Together, they allow the work to be met mentally, emotionally, and through the body. So understanding is not just reached, but lived.
Root level facilitation of patterns through
awareness, emotion, and integration

Craig’s work is grounded in lived integration, not borrowed technique. Over several decades, Craig built businesses in consulting and technology while quietly carrying burnout, overthinking, and a growing erosion of self trust. From the outside, life appeared successful. but internally, pressure was accumulating.
The turning point came when it became clear the issue wasn’t external demand It was the patterns organising his internal responses.
Craig stepped away and spent years rebuilding from the inside out through deep inner growth, spirituality, effortless meditation, breathwork, somatic work, and applied behavioural change. The work wasn’t assembled — it was lived. Over time, this integration became a coherent approach to pattern level facilitation — shaped by real world leadership, psychological depth, and embodied practice — rather than theory or trend.
Pattern level facilitation through movement, regulation, and embodied experience

Paul’s work begins in the body and moves outward into life. After years competing at the highest levels of elite sport, discipline, pressure, and physical resilience shaped Paul’s early world. Hard work was the standard. Pushing through was normal.
Over time, that approach stopped addressing what was happening underneath. Burnout, disconnection, and a quiet loss of confidence began to surface. Not from failure, but from carrying pressure without another way to process it. Movement became the bridge back.
Through awareness, motion, and honest physical engagement, Paul discovered a different relationship with strength — one grounded in regulation, self respect, and presence. That work now forms the foundation of his facilitation. In Break the Loop: Live, Paul brings movement and embodied practice that allows patterns to be met, not just talked about, then integrated where they actually live.
Break the Loop: Live is held at the root level shaped by lived experience,
complementary approaches, and a shared respect for depth.
Intrinsic Living® helps adults recognise and interrupt the stress-driven patterns that keep repeating under pressure creating greater clarity, space and self trust.
Pattern level facilitation through movement, regulation, and embodied experience

Paul "Ollie" Upfield is a former professional NRL player, sports coach and Movement Facilitator. He brings a practical physical doorway into Break the Loop for people who understand pressure, effort, performance and recovery more readily than
inner growth language.
Inside Break the Loop, movement is not a workout bolted onto the work. It is a way to notice in real time how you rush, force, compare, hold back or ignore what your body is telling you.
Paul helps participants stay engaged and experience a different response. He does not provide therapy, physiotherapy, injury diagnosis or rehabilitation.
Intrinsic Living® was founded by Craig Young to help adults understand and interrupt the stress driven patterns beneath overthinking, emotional reactions and self-doubt so they can rebuild calm, clarity and self-trust.
Inner Growth Coaching through awareness, emotion and subconscious patterns

Craig brings more than 30 years of experience building and consulting across businesses, along with the lived experience of three major burnouts and the deeper rebuild that followed.
His work brings together Inner Growth Coaching, Effortless Meditation, breathwork and embodied awareness in a grounded, practical and non judgemental way.
Break the Loop: Live is where that work begins: seeing the pattern more clearly.
A free 2-hrs session live Zoom experience with Craig Young. It introduces you to why stress driven patterns can keep repeating and helps you begin recognising your own loop more clearly.
It is for adults who may look capable on the outside but feel caught in overthinking, second guessing, emotional reactions or repeating patterns on the inside. It is open to all genders and roles.
No. You do not need to empty your mind, concentrate perfectly or have any previous experience. Craig will guide you through each practice.
No. Break the Loop: Live is educational and experiential. It does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions and is not a substitute for qualified professional care.
No. Break the Loop: Live is an accessible awareness and recognition experience.
The Break the Loop Retreat is a deeper, structured inner growth immersion.
The sessions run live on Tuesday, 8 September 2026 | 6:30 pm-8:30 pm AEST | Live via Zoom. Registration is free.
A free 2-hrs session live Zoom experience with Craig Young. It introduces you to why stress driven patterns can keep repeating and helps you begin recognising your own loop more clearly.
It is for adults who may look capable on the outside but feel caught in overthinking, second guessing, emotional reactions or repeating patterns on the inside. It is open to all genders and roles.
No. You do not need to empty your mind, concentrate perfectly or have any previous experience. Craig will guide you through each practice.
No. Break the Loop: Live is educational and experiential. It does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions and is not a substitute for qualified professional care.
No. Break the Loop: Live is an accessible awareness and recognition experience. The Break the Loop Retreat is a deeper, structured inner growth immersion.
The next Break the Loop: Live is on Tuesday, 8 September 2026 | 6:30 pm-8:30 pm AEST | Live via Zoom , live via Zoom.
Registration is free.
There are times when insight, strategy, or understanding aren’t enough. What matters then is the ability to stay present with yourself, with pressure, and with what’s actually unfolding without rushing, avoiding, or handing control back to old patterns.
This training offers a structured way to meet that moment. Not to become someone else. Not to fix what isn’t broken.
But to understand what has been shaping your responses, and learn how to meet that more directly. Nothing to perform.
Nothing to prove. Just intentional time set aside for work that goes deeper.
Free to attend. No surface level theory. Three live sessions.
Break the Loop: Live is educational and experiential. It is not medical or mental health treatment and is not a substitute for support from a qualified professional.
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